It’s no secret that the current social climate can crush your libido or give you anxiety about s*x. These positions are perfect for establishing the intimacy and connection you need to ease some of your stresses. But you’ll need to put the phone down and stop scrolling through all your feeds first.
- The lullaby rock
It’s weirdly soothing to be rocked, even when you’re an adult person, but combined with penetration, it’s a s*xual narcotic. Face each other on your sides and wrap a leg around him. Instead of thrusting, grab ahold somewhere (shoulders, b*tt, back) and rock him against your body. Take turns, and when you’re the rockee, just completely let go and let them take control of everything. Maybe it will be all right, after all.
- The connected hearts
Kneel on his lap with your legs on the outside of his. Move very slowly, gazing into each other’s eyes and synchronizing your breath as you move slowly. Take your time until you feel totally connected—you’ll feel it when it happens. If you can handle the intensity of someone looking into your very soul, man, this is some of the most intimate, personal s*x you will ever have.
- The lusty leg lift
Sometimes if you’re in a s*x rut, from stress or otherwise, trying something that seems kind of insane is the antidote. Put on some heels and lift your right leg as high as it will go. If your leg doesn’t go that way, like ever, bend it so he can hook his arm under it. Stand holding onto a table for balance as he enters standing, holding onto your leg and bum.
- Primal scream therapy
Get some catharsis with super loud s*x—moan, shout his name, speak in tongues—whatever’s gonna gonna get you to a deep primal place. Try a dog position, but arch your back so you’re b*tt’s tilted up to make it feel even more raw and animalistic. And if you think getting spanked is gonna help you work it out, girl, now’s the time.
- The duck and cover
Lay blankets over a table and make a table fort/love nest. Spread out comfy blankets and pillows and bring some booze, food and non-flammable mood lighting. He kneels, sitting back on his feet and you get in front of him in a classic duck and cover pose so that you can ride him by moving your hips. Good for insanely deep penetration and protecting yourself from life’s stress — even for a few moments.