These methods require you to do things
in a very subtle way, so that your ex-
girlfriend doesn’t entirely realize what
you’re doing… but in the end, they’ll put
her back in your arms.
If you were already working toward getting back
together with an ex girlfriend, learning that
she’s dating again can be devastating. While
most guys do give up at this point, your chances
of getting back with her are far from over. If
you’re willing to be patient, think positive, and
put in some quality effort? You can actually use
your ex girlfriend’s new romance to launch
yourself back into her life, getting her to break
up with or forget her new boyfriend and start
dating you again.
Step 1 – Let go of your ex-girlfriend
Before you begin taking steps closer to your ex’s
heart again, you first have to let her go. While
this might hurt, it’s just temporary. If it helps,
keep reminding yourself that you are working
toward getting her back, and letting go of her is
an important part of that plan. Getting your ex
girlfriend back from another man isn’t
something that happens overnight. By not
fighting the break up, you’re refusing to battle
with her decision to end things with you. By not
running off to stop her from dating this new
guy, you’re showing a level of pride and
maturity. Anything you could say at this point
wouldn’t work anyway, so don’t say anything.
You don’t want to come off as needy, jealous, or
anything like that – this will hurt your chances
of getting your ex back.
Step 2 – Drop back for a while
Leave your girlfriend utterly and completely
alone during the honeymoon stages of her
relationship. Don’t call her, text her, email her,
or try to run into her either. Don’t acknowledge
her new boyfriend, and don’t respond to any
calls or messages from her. This step of the
process requires putting yourself back in her
head, and you can’t do that if you’re in constant
contact with her. By disappearing off her social
map, your ex will wonder where you are, what
you’re doing, and whether or not you’re thinking
about her. Not seeing you will actually make
your ex miss you – and this is an important part
of winning back her heart.
Step 3 – Focus on yourself
Now that you have some extra free time, use it
in the most positive manner possible. By
working on yourself, you can make yourself look,
feel, and even act better… do it right, and your
ex will be astonished by the new you the next
time she sees you. Go to the gym, take up
running… when you start doing all new things
you end up meeting new people. The exercise
will help you sweat off any residual feelings of
hopeless and despair over losing your girlfriend,
and all that stuff will be replaced with positive
energy. When you’re fit and toned, run out and
get some new clothes. A huge part of attracting
your girlfriend is physically making yourself
desirable to her, but also mentally having the
confidence that all girls love.
Step 4 – Wait out her break up
Most rebound relationships last little more than
a month. This is great news for you, because if
your ex jumped right into this new romance
there’s a good chance she’s in a rebound
relationship. And want some more good news?
The fact that your ex started dating another guy
again so quickly after dumping you results in
her burying her feelings for you instead of
dealing with and getting over them. This means
that somewhere beneath the surface of her
heart, there’s a lot of love still left for you.
Finding that love and gently tugging on it can
bring it back out into the open, causing your
exgirlfriend to think about you, miss you, and
want to be with you again.
As much as it hurts to watch your ex with
another guy, try to concentrate on the big
picture. In the long run, you’ll be the one
standing next to her. There’s not much you can
do right now, so don’t blow things by trying to
talk her out of dating her new boyfriend, bad
mouthing him, or any of that jealous boyfriend
stuff. Stick it out, and wait for the rebound
relationship to invariably fail.
Step 5 – Pick Her Up When She Falls
When a rebound relationship breaks up, more
often than not it’s the girl who gets hurt. When
your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend, she’s
probably treating the romance as a solid,
concrete thing. When it shatters? You’ll need to
be there to help pick up the pieces of her
broken relationship. She’ll be looking for
someone familiar and safe – and that’s you.
Your ex will find comfort in meeting, talking to,
and being in your arms again after a bad
rebound, so be prepared to play that role.
Another huge advantage: your ex-girlfriend
still has feelings of love for you. She had little
or no time to resolve your break up, because
she jumped right into another relationship. This
is where you’ll draw out those emotions and use
them to win her back.
What if her new relationship doesn’t break
up? How can I get her back?
Occasionally, a rebound relationship will stick for
some time. If this is the continue reading…