There’s a special subset of women who get a
bad rep because they’re not the bubbly,
outwardly girly, let’s-share-our-feelings type
of characters. They largely keep to
themselves, don’t show much affectation and
are frequently written off as cold bitches by
other women and men.
These ladies, however, are anything but
heartless brutes. In fact, they possess a much
deeper, purer kind of character because it’s
kept hidden from view so often.
These are the women who deal with their
problems on their own and don’t like going to
people when they’re upset.
They’re the ones who act like they don’t care
but are very tuned into the conversation.
They’re like the pragmatic, methodical Amy
from “Gone Girl” (minus the psychotic part).
This nuanced intrigue is what makes an
unemotional woman. She’s not the slanderous
misnomers we liken her to.
Her subtlety is also her biggest attraction. And
when you fall for her, you’ll feel like you’ve
never met someone so entirely her own
person. Here are the 11 reasons why you
should date an unemotional woman:
1. SHE DOESN’T WANT TO TALK
ABOUT HER FEELINGS
Unemotional women aren’t completely devoid
of emotions (read: we aren’t sociopaths),
they just don’t want to sit in a circle, taking
turns discussing their inner feels. They’d
simply rather move on from them or tackle
2. SHE WON’T PUT ON AIRS TO
MAKE HERSELF FEEL BETTER
She doesn’t feel the need to fake it around
people or do something dramatic to improve
her mood. She doesn’t seek out attention to
draw away from her problems, or spiral out of
Because she’ll keep her downtrodden spirits
to herself, an unemotional woman is the
easiest and yet hardest friend to have.
3. SHE DOESN’T CARE WHAT PEOPLE
SAY ABOUT HER
She cares more about how she would describe
herself. For this reason, unemotional women
are confident and remain unaffected. They’ll
take the blame for a friend and ownership of
their actions because they don’t get upset by
what other people think of them.
4. SHE’S NOT GREAT AT
It’s not that she doesn’t care about your
feelings — she isn’t well-equipped to handle
them. She often says the wrong things, but
it’s not meant to hurt. The way she tries and
misses can be sweetly endearing, though.
Remember, her intentions are good.
5. SHE’LL NEVER COME TO YOU
ASKING FOR REASSURANCE
Her actions are dictated by her thoughts, not
her emotional responses. Because she has a
difficult time opening up and making herself
vulnerable, she isn’t going to be dependent
on the support of others. Those who she does,
in fact, open up to are special.
- THOSE SHE LOVES, SHE LOVES
She doesn’t particularly like or love anyone
outside of her small inner circle. It’s not that
she’s asocial or socially awkward, she just
interacts with people on a purely functional
level. She doesn’t associate degrees of
affection for people who she doesn’t let into
This allows for her to be a devoted friend,
lover and family member because she directs
all of her heart to this meaningful group of
- SHE RELEASES HER TENSIONS
THROUGH CONSTRUCTIVE WAYS
She’s not going to lash out or break down and
cry (at least not in front of you). She won’t
dump her problems on you or have long,
miserable venting sessions.
An unemotional girl channels this energy
through productive or creative means, like
kick boxing, writing, dancing, painting,
playing music. She might avoid deep talks,
but she’ll welcome deeply good fun.
- OUTWARD DISPLAYS OF
AFFECTION MAKE HER
She gets embarrassed for couples who are
overly emotional or publicly intimate. But in
the most private and protected depths of her
soul, she relishes romantic moments with her
partner and the many layers of falling in love.
Don’t worry about having her show up to a
guy’s night — she knows how to play it cool in
front of the boys.
- THERE ARE ONLY A FEW PEOPLE
SHE NEEDS VALIDATION FROM
You’ll know if you’re there. She doesn’t need
random peripherals reinforcing her self-
esteem. In fact, she hardly even thinks about
her self-esteem because it’s a non-issue.
To those she seeks approval from, she would
never admit. It makes your bond all the more
sacred, and the attention she does give all the
- SHE NEVER NOTICEABLY CRACKS
This is because she doesn’t over-analyze a
situation to the detriment of finding an
appropriate solution. Without her flighty
emotions bogging things down, she only gets
stronger and rises to the challenge. You can
always rely on her to see the bigger picture
and get things done.
- SHE GETS THE FEELS
She does indeed have feelings, just not ones
that she cares to express to others. She’ll cry,
but will never be seen crying in the arms of
Despite appearing tough on the outside, she
has her weaknesses like tragic love stories
and plush animals and the beach at dusk. And
if you’re lucky, she’ll reveal this side to you.
- SHE RELEASES HER TENSIONS
– Laura Argintar/EliteDaily.
Culled from Radar.